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Destyn Land

Write. Teach. Inspire.

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author, podcaster, facilitator.

Hi there,

I’m Destyn

Welcome to the intersection of storytelling, social justice, ​and creativity. As a child, I felt "different" and struggled ​to fit in with the other boys, leading me to internalize ​shame as part of my identity. Much of my work is about ​unlearning that shame and embracing authenticity. If ​you're looking for a space to ask questions, explore, and be ​challenged, you’re in the right place.

The Rules We Live By

A timely book examining the nature ​of ‘masculinity’ and the lessons we ​are taught as children, which ​challenges readers to unpack cultural ​norms. Topics range from anger to ​accountability, trauma, and ​friendship, to lead readers on a ​reflective journey of their own.

Let’s Work Together

As a writer, podcaster, educator, and friend, I strive to help ​create a world where everyone can "be free, live fully, and be ​well," as bell hooks said.Will you join me in this lifelong ​journey toward justice, equity, and inclusion? Together, we can ​co-create the world we envision.

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RETHINKING MANHOOD ​PODCAST

Listen to episodes of men and ​masculine folks sharing the ​stories of navigating their mental ​health, body image, ​relationships and much more!

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WORKSHOPS

Invite me to your workplace, ​campus, or church to facilitate a ​training session or workshop ​focused on topics related to DEI, or ​to engage in conversations about ​masculinity and men’s work.


SETH MCMANUS

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Book Review: “This book ought to be savored, ​​consumed, explored, and shared. ​It explores ​Christianity and ​integrates faith meaningfully but ​​offers value and wisdom to ​anyone regardless of their ​faith ​background. I couldn’t ​recommend this book ​highly ​enough to anyone. You will find ​value here, ​you will be challenged, ​and you will be changed.”

DECOLONIZING DAD

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Podcast Review: “This podcast is a must. A ​true testament at how positivity and ​understanding can shape the world for the ​better. You are truly doing such important ​work. I find myself constantly wanting more ​from you because you’re such a great ​storyteller. Eagerly waiting for a new episode”

CITY ADMINISTRATOR

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Workshop Review: “Storytelling was a wonderful ​​way to teach the concepts. Love ​his teaching style ​and ​engagement of participants. Destyn went over ​the ​presentation in a wonderful way ​that made ​participants think and ​reflect on our own lives. ​Everyone ​needs to experience training like ​this.”


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Write. Teach. Inspire.

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